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迁入新家的确令人振奋,那阵刚刷上的漆味、滑溜溜的大理石地面、新沙发、新电视、新卧室装饰、完美的室内设计、以及靠近商场的良好地点,都让人兴奋不已。可是,如果你的邻居是如以下所述,那可能是你恶梦的开始。。。。

一、多管闲事的-社区内每个角落都有耳朵和眼睛

有着这种邻居有好也有坏。他们是那种对社区里所发生的每一件事都了如指掌的人 - 即使是一些幕后私事。例如你刚买了台新电视、某某人刚离婚、还是谁家的佣人出走了,他们都知道。他们就像是社区里的美国有线电视新闻网(CNN)和英国广播电台(BBC)那样,什么新闻都抢先知道,并率先告知每个人 - 不管你想知道与否。


二、 看不见的 - 你永远不知道是谁住在你的隔壁
 

这是一些比较“宁静”的邻居,他们的家总是看起来似乎没人住。可是你知道是有人住在那的,因为偶尔晚间你会看见有车子停泊在院子里,但隔天一大早就消失了。尽管你多年以来住宿在隔壁,但是你都从来没有正真看到或遇见过他们,你甚至会开始质疑你的邻居是否存在。然而,这种可悲现象是城市里常见的,因为人们都各忙各的,在竞争的社会中日以继夜地工作。


三、整天对着家属呼喊及尖叫的

这种邻居完全跟以上二号邻居相反,应该没有人可以忍耐住在这种邻居的隔壁。叫喊是他们每日的正常沟通方式。这些人会对孩子、佣人、或配偶不断地喊叫,一时孩子还会以喊叫的方式回应。这一些邻居根本不在乎左邻右舍人家的感受。每天早上在你闹钟还没响起前,和你放工回到家时,都会第一时间听到他们的呐喊。


四、不友善也不愿意妥协的

一些邻居只有在投诉你的时候才回注意到你的存在。每当你对他们说早安时,他们会表现得似乎听不见。但一旦有事情抱怨于你,他们一大清早就会请你把你的草剪短,因为已经有几根草长过了他们的篱笆。别说想跟他们借一把剪刀,如果你想要求这邻居在你出外旅行时,替你看守家园,那也可免了。

(我不是骄傲,只是比你优秀很多)

五、可疑-常常表现得奇奇怪怪的

还有一些无时无刻都鬼鬼祟祟的邻居,好像要隐藏什么的。他们的行为隐秘,举动神秘,似乎有人在监视着他们的一举一动,或可能他们家里种植大麻。他们不喜欢与别人对话,也不喜欢被人关注。总之如果他们没有做到任何伤害你的事,你就没有必要去管他们。


六、动物庄园 - 过多的宠物

住在这些邻居的隔壁犹如住在动物园或农场旁。不时会有猫咪到访你家偷走食物、或兔子在他们花园里 “施肥” 让你每天早上呼吸到 “新鲜” 空气、还有一些吠个不停的狗狗,有时也会跟兔子们一起 ”施肥”。这一些人可能是动物繁殖家,其中一些可能是超级动物爱好者。你可能觉得你都能忍受这些骚动。。。。直到一天早上在你要出门工作前,在门口踩到一堆猫粪再说。


事实上不仅只有这六种你不想住在隔壁的烦人的邻居,这个搞笑的视频里有另外五种超讨人厌的邻居例子 :

所以在买房子前,你可以去该社区一带走走,跟一些居民交流一下。希望你能遇到多管闲事的一号邻居,让他告诉你一些关于该社区的消息。你搬进去的不单单是你的新家,而是全新的一个社区,有献于你创造出一个更完美温馨的家庭。

或者,为了节省你的时间,你可以到我们 PropSocial 的网站搜寻社区资料,看看一些别人写下的社区资料。那 PropSocial 不就成为了一号邻居吗???请你来跟我们分享你的恐怖邻居故事。。。


(Translated by: Yau Yin Wey, 2nd November 2015)

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James bond craig junio2006 small

I don't know which type of the above mine belongs to, but he's definitely an a**hole :P

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Mine is type no. 6.... frustating

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Mine is probably No.4 - The Arrogant!

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I have a No 1 in my neighbourhood which is totally annoying. Better do not let them know things about you or not they will spread yours to the whole world as well!

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Thank goodness I have lovely neighbours :)

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Perhaps 3 & 5...;)

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@james_bob why not share your stories? Curious to know :P

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我有第三和第四的邻居,第三真的很烦!

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@Zara_Yeow, neighbour on the right has been having renovation since donkey years ago and still on going, the drilling noises are killing me. Drilling from morning at 8am until dinner time including weekends and Public Holidays. Very hardworking contractor workers they have got there, but yet still not completed even after almost a year.

The neighbour on the left is the world class a**hole. He will always park over our side, causing my family not able to enter in and out of the house. And yet react defensively with vulgarity when being told nicely to move his car back to his side. This happens not just once or twice, but almost every single day.

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I think I should move into a Bungalow.... or even better, an island :P

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Have u tried telling them? The neighbour on your left. Well the one on the right I dont think there's anything much u can do about it.

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@Zara_Yeow, I did! Many times.

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@james_bob, I have the same experience, my left neighbor bought the property 2 years ago, and till today the drilling, hammering on the wall, hacking still on going... and god knows when it will end.. (probably till the date i move out to my another property) and my right neighbor, use to have more than 10 stray cats and never bother to look after those poor animal welfare (food and shelter) those stray cats would just hoop into your compound day in day out to do their business (poo poo and wee wee) thank god the right neighbor had move back to their home town.

the last house next door neighbor use to feed the pigeon day in day out with their left over food in front of the condo balcony and the pigeon become pest to other property owner in the surrounding as they again poo poo all over and the pigeon droppings is so toxic and hazardous. 

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Some neighbours are like pest *annoying*, inconsiderate, should see apartment living is not kampung/village, if they want to rear pets like nobody business, they should just migrate back to their kampung, respect sikit majority of neighbours' feeling/comfort

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 I am ok (still can tolerate) with the other reasons. except the FIRST one!!! pLease. but I am in the number 2 category :-) 

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I can't accept the FIRST one..

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i'm so glad that my neighbor gave away his 2 dogs yesterday...

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@ppnnkk2011 does that mean he has lesser dogs now or no more dogs? XD

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Well, I really don't mind having a neighbour who has lots of dogs :)

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Ganster, murderers, gravekeepers, avid vomiters, anyone who likes to dig their garden and plant dead bodies in it.

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@Aack2001, that's kinda rare xD  Not very often we find these kind of neighbours around

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@Aack2001 avid vomiters LOL, that fella must be intoxicated often much. XD

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Also avoid, paid killers, politicians, and anyone working for the government.. You might not know if you find a dead body in concrete barrel, the following day.. i would welcome a rich saudi though... may get some free money i might not want to use, so i can return it to him.
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Lol! So, basically before choosing your house, you have to get to know the neighbours first, if possible hang out with them for a bit. If OK, all pass, then only move in. Haha. But if they are murderers, it's probably not going to be easy to find out xD